scare tactics

Control freaks have a fear-based operating system.

“There is no room in love for fear. Well-formed love banishes fear. Since fear is crippling, a fearful life — fear of death, fear of judgment — is one not yet fully formed in love.” — 1 John 4:18, The Message Bible

junk food

Many of us don’t have much of an appetite for solid truth.

good news/bad news

If you never want to change, you probably won’t.